Some people my age, or around my age have a "boyfriend", or "girlfriend". The thing that I have to say about that is "unless you are truly, truly in love with that person, and thinking about spending the rest of your life with them. . . then why wast your time flirting with some body's future spouse." I mean really think, how many times have people actually married to their "high school sweetheart". If you can tell me at least 3 people that you actually know that have done that, then I give you full approval to quit reading my blog.
Having known this, it is extremely difficult for me to see my friends fall for a guy and seem to forget about my existence. They think that they are completed by this one human life, when in reality the only person capable of filling your huge needs is Christ. Most people get married thinking that this person will fulfill their needs and make them forever happy. In the end the relationship is broken, because a person is let down by the other. If a relationship is built on a sturdy foundation then i say " go ahead". If it is not, then stop telling me about how awesome that person is and giggling and talking about them in front of me. I really don't care. I care about the people, but I don't want to spend my middle school and high school thinking and dreaming about the guy that doesn't even know I exist. He will when the time comes.
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